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The Abuse of Abuse Is Complicating Legitimate Abuse
The Abuse of Abuse Is Complicating Legitimate Abuse
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How Do You Respond When Abuse and Submission Collide?
How Do You Respond When Abuse and Submission Collide
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Four Things to Know When Working through Abuse
Four Things to Know When Working through Abuse
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The Carefulness and Competence Needed When Helping the Abused
The Carefulness and Competence Needed When Helping the Abused
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Ep. 418 Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make
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Can a Christian Divorce Another Christian For Abuse?
Can a Christian Divorce Another Christian For Abuse
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Spiritual Abuse – When It Is Time To Leave
Spiritual Abuse - When It Is Time To Leave
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Abuse Is Not the Best Way to Talk about the Problem with Abuse
Abuse Is Not the Best Way to Talk about the Problem with Abuse
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Ep. 412 Do We Have to Twist Scripture to Help Victims of Abuse?
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A Cry For the Victims Of Sexual Abuse
A Cry For the Victims Of Sexual Abuse
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Four Shades to Domestic Abuse
Four Shades to Domestic Abuse
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Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse to See If It’s Happening to You
Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse to See If It’s Happening to You
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Why the Term Emotional Abuse Is Unhelpful and Misleading
Why the Term Emotional Abuse Is Unhelpful and Misleading
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Ep. 408 The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens
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Practically Navigating the Contours to Help an Abuse Victim
Practically Navigating the Contours to Help an Abuse Victim
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When the Abuse You See Clouds Biblical Interpretations
When the Abuse You See Clouds Biblical Interpretations
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A Tempting Facade for Defense That Further Enslaves the Abused
A Tempting Facade for Defense That Further Enslaves the Abused
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Ep. 351 Why Most Biblical Counselors Should Not Take on Abuse Cases
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Ep. 370 A Practical Response to Sexual Abuse in the Church
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Ep. 372 Response to Grudem’s New View on Abuse and Divorce
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Ep. 342 Interview with Rick Thomas and Julie Ganschow on Abuse
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Ep. 213 Answers Questions on Abuse, Church, and Forgiveness
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Abuse, Suffering, and Other Painful Disappointments
Abuse, Suffering, and Other Painful Disappointments
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Case Study: The Sexually Abused
Case Study The Sexually Abused
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Ep. 133 Dianne Keech On the Church, Abuse, and Parenting
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Ep. 47 Should a Pastor Beat and Abuse His Wife?
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Ep. 242 Rick Answers Questions about Abuse and More
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Ep. 187 Is Depression a Sin When Others Abuse You?
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How to Know If Your Victimhood Has Become Your Identity
How to Know If Your Victimhood Has Become Your Identity
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Ep. 389 Comprehensive Data-Gathering Is Crucial to Help Victims
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Thinking of Yourself as Victim Is One of the Worst Things You Can Do
Thinking of Yourself as Victim Is One of the Worst Things You Can Do
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Ep. 31 Uncensored Podcast On a Theology of Suffering
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Storyboarding Marriage – from Dysfunction to Restoration
Storyboarding Marriage - from Dysfunction to Restoration
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Foster Children – The Forgotten Victims Of Abuse
Foster Children - The Forgotten Victims Of Abuse
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Ep. 132 Dianne Keech S.A.F.E. Child Protection Consulting
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Should I Count My Mean Husband More Significant than Me?
Should I Count My Mean Husband More Significant than Me
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An Appeal from a Former Sovereign Grace Ministries Pastor
An Appeal from a Former Sovereign Grace Ministries Pastor
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Ep. 409 Why Julie Roys Is a Dangerous Investigative Journalist
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God Is Not on Your Side: You’re on His Side, or You’re Not
God Is Not on Your Side You’re on His Side, or You’re Not
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Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
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Why It Is So Hard to Repent of Sinful Pride
Why It Is So Hard to Repent of Sinful Pride
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What Is Gaslighting, Its Effects, and How to React to It?
What Is Gaslighting, Its Effects, and How to React to It
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Ep. 413 The Problem with Wounded Theology and Victim Identity
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The Remarkable Way God Uses Your Brokenness to Heal You
The Remarkable Way God Uses Your Brokenness to Heal You
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What Are Your Thoughts About Wolves and Weeds In the Church?
What Are Your Thoughts About Wolves and Weeds In the Church
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You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore
You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore
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Ep. 376 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 13
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Ep. 243 How to Leave Churches, Ministries, Employers, Etc.
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I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar: Thoughts on Feminism
I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar Thoughts on Feminism
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The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens
The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens
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How the Ongoing Sin of Others Impacts Your Health
How the Ongoing Sin of Others Impacts Your Health
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When Unforgiveness Lingers, Resentment and Bitterness Enter
When Unforgiveness Lingers, Resentment and Bitterness Enter
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How to Help an Abuser
How to Help an Abuser
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Ep. 266 When Biblical Counselors Don’t Act like Biblical Counselors
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Ep. 367 Is It Wise for Me to Attend a Sovereign Grace Church?
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How to Help People with Different Opinions When Both Are Right
How to Help People with Different Opinions When Both Are Right
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The Destructive Force of Empathy, and Why You Need to Know
The Destructive Force of Empathy, and Why You Need to Know
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Interview With a Victim of Adultery
Interview With a Victim of Adultery
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Post-Traumatic Stress Is Not a Disorder
Post-Traumatic Stress Is Not a Disorder
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The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem
The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem
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Inferiority of a Diagnosis, and the Abuse Construct
Inferiority of a Diagnosis, and the Abuse Construct
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Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make
Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make
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Dear Evangelical, It’s Unwise and Unhelpful to Mock Joel Osteen
Dear Evangelical, It’s Unwise and Unhelpful to Mock Joel Osteen
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Ep. 307 Stop Using My Resources to Make a Person Conform
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Seven Things To Know When Living With a Harsh Husband
Seven Things To Know When Living With a Harsh Husband
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Ep. 258 Suffering and Leadership, the Gifts You Need
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Ep. 196 Understanding the Exhausting Work of Being a Pastor
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Ep. 362 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 10
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It Is Not Remotely Possible to Break God’s Heart
It Is Not Remotely Possible to Break God’s Heart
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Guess What? Your Marriage Is Supposed To Kill You
Guess What Your Marriage Is Supposed To Kill You
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I’m Angry at God Because He Did Not Help Me
I’m Angry at God Because He Did Not Help Me
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Ep. 201 Comparing Authoritarian and Delegating Church Models
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Ep. 153 You Don’t Need a Verse for Everything You Do
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A Note to Quiet People: It’s Time to Start Talking
A Note to Quiet People It’s Time to Start Talking
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Ep. 179 The Mysterious Interplay of Fear, Anger, and Self-Reliance
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How Do I Begin a Counseling Ministry at My Church?
How Do I Begin a Counseling Ministry at My Church
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Ep. 423 Four Reasons the BC Movement Has Passed Its Prime
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Setting Aside Your Desires to Lead Your Husband
Setting Aside Your Desires to Lead Your Husband
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Four People Types Who Get Stuck In a Rut
Four People Types Who Get Stuck In a Rut
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Ep. 395 God Does Not Become Sad When You Hurt
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Wise Parents Teach Their Children How to Curse
Wise Parents Teach Their Children How to Curse
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Ep. 396 Why ACBC Does Not Accept Our Training
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A Unique Wife Helping a Unique Man Change Is the Best
A Unique Wife Helping a Unique Man Change Is the Best
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The Surprising Truth of Why a Husband Devalues His Wife
The Surprising Truth of Why a Husband Devalues His Wife
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Twenty Questions When You’re Hurt By Your Church
Twenty Questions When You're Hurt By Your Church
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The Sobering Reason It’s Hard to Overcome Insecurity
The Sobering Reason It’s Hard to Overcome Insecurity
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Is It Wrong for Christians to Have Fun in a Dark World?
Is It Wrong for Christians to Have Fun in a Dark World
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Ep. 58 Help Me Help My Difficult Relative
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What Are You to Do When God Does Not Respond Like You Hoped?
What Are You to Do When God Does Not Respond Like You Hoped
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20 Facts to Know about the Construct of ADHD
20 Facts to Know about the Construct of ADHD
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Double Confession: How to Respond When Sinned Against
Double Confession How to Respond When Sinned Against
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When Your Preferred Reality Clashes with Your Fallen Reality
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How Our Behaviors May Push Others Away from Christ
Humbly Assessing How Our Behaviors May Push Others Away from Christ
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How Do You Leave Your Church?
How Do You Leave Your Church
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Ep. 358 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 6
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The Danger of Hating the Sin and Loving the Sinner
The Danger of Hating the Sin and Loving the Sinner
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Submission Is Never The Main Problem In Marriage
Submission Is Never The Main Problem In Marriage
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Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me?
Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me
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Why Each Person Needs Care According to Their Uniqueness
Why Each Person Needs Care According to Their Uniqueness
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Ep. 212 Johnny & Friends, Plus Beth Moore
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How to Train Your Flea, or How to Control Others
How to Train Your Flea, or How to Control Others
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I Met a Christian Who Refuses to Walk Away from His Sin
I Met a Christian Who Refuses to Walk Away from His Sin
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The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ
The Reason I Dated a Lesbian
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Should a Wife Submit To an Unrepentant Husband?
Should a Wife Submit To an Unrepentant Husband
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Ep. 357 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 5
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Ep. 353 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 1
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What Can I Do About Being Fearful of Discipling Others?
What Can I Do About Being Fearful of Discipling Others
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Understanding How Your Enemy Is God’s Kindness To You
Understanding How Your Enemy Is God’s Kindness To You
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Being Honest about ADHD
Being Honest about ADHD
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Pick an Enemy! Will You Do What Jesus Said: Love Them?
Pick an Enemy! Will You Do What Jesus Said Love Them
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How to Turn Your Arguments Into Redemptive Communication
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When You Unknowingly Act Like the Unkind People You Decry
When You Unknowingly Act Like the Unkind People You Decry
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My Mother Died Last Night—A Few Thoughts After Life
My Mother Died Last Night—A Few Thoughts After Life
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Do You Qualify to Have a Spouse?
Do You Qualify to Have a Spouse
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Ep. 224 My Church Is Not Transparent and It’s Frustrating
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Ep. 228 The Tragedy of Imitating Your Favorite Leader
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Is It Wrong To Critique Your Pastor’s Sermons?
Is It Wrong To Critique Your Pastor's Sermons
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Every Person Who Withholds the Truth Is Not Lying
Every Person Who Withholds the Truth Is Not Lying
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The Need to Know How Choices to Feel Better Are Addictive
The Need to Know How Choices to Feel Better Are Addictive
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Eight Practical and Transforming Ways to Think about Your Past
Eight Practical and Transforming Ways to Think about Your Past
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What Qualities Do You Look for in a Pastor?
What Qualities Do You Look for in a Pastor
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Ep. 349 How We Help Local Churches, Practically Speaking
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Ep. 220 My Church Is Falling Apart, and It’s Devastating to Me
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Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader
Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader
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Five Things You Need to Know to Change Your Life
Five Things You Need to Know to Change Your Life
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How to Love a Woke Person Who Does Not Love You
How to Love a Woke Person Who Does Not Love You
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How to Respond to Angry People with Too Many Needs
How to Respond to Angry People with Too Many Needs
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Ep. 225 Why Some Certified Biblical Counselors Harm People
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The Perfect Place to Reveal Your Dysfunctional Self
The Perfect Place to Reveal Your Dysfunctional Self
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Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve?
Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve
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Recovering, Rejoicing, But Refusing to Forget the Pain
Recovering, Rejoicing, But Refusing to Forget the Pain
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How to Use Your Imagination to Help People Love God
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Church Discipline: How to Help a Person Get Right with God
Church Discipline How to Help a Person Get Right with God
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Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You
Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You
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Ep. 279 The Problem of Blaming Men for Relationship Problems
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The Intricate Reasons Why a Teen Boy Rejects His Mother
The Intricate Reasons Why a Teen Boy Rejects His Mother
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Ep. 146 A Different Kind of “Happy Ever After” Marriage
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When Obedience Collides With My Emotions
When Obedience Collides With My Emotions
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The Dynamics of the Old and New Selves
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Submission Is Repugnant. What Do You Think of Me?
Submission Is Repugnant. What Do You Think of Me
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What Does Nourish and Cherish Your Wife Mean?
What Does It Mean to Nourish and Cherish Your Wife
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Why Do You Attend Your Church?
Why Do You Attend Your Church
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Day 4 – Teen Devotion: Forget about Self-Esteem
Day 4 – Teen Devotion Forget About Self-Esteem
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Why Can’t I Have My Life the Way I Want It, on My Terms?
Why Can’t I Have My Life the Way I Want It, on My Terms
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Three Mind Maps to Move You from Despair to Joy
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The First Thing to Know When Caring For Someone
The First Thing to Know When Caring For Someone
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9/11: A Study in Misplaced Faith and a Hardened Conscience
911 A Study in Misplaced Faith and a Hardened Conscience
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Ep. 125 A Weak Church Model: The Regular Attender
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Ep. 249 What Is Reactive Racism and Reflective Racism?
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When a Parachurch Ministry Tries to Run the Church
When a Parachurch Ministry Tries to Run the Church
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Connecting the Gospel to a God Who Is Silent
Connecting the Gospel to a God Who Is Silent
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The Reason I Stopped Hating My Dad Was Life-Changing
The Reason I Stopped Hating My Dad Was Life-Changing
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What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader? Are You One?
What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader, and Are You One
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Ep. 154 The Tricky Contours of Sermon Application
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The Negative Effect of Fundamentalism On the Soul
The Negative Effect of Fundamentalism On the Soul
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Let Me Tell You About My White Privilege
Let Me Tell You About My White Privilege
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Ep. 180 It’s Critical to Know that You’ll Always Be Angry
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Mind Mapping the Best Marriage Help You’ll Ever Find
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Ep. 175 When You’re Insecure around Certain People
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Ep. 299 How to Interact with a Pastor with Known Sin
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Ep. 297 Knowing How to Live Out Practical Forgiveness Is Essential
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Ep. 296 Practical Advice for Those Struggling with Deep Hurts
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Ep. 421 Ten Steps Leading to Toxic Christian Femininity
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Ep. 168 The Dawning Reality of Who You Really Married
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When the Thing That Protects You Becomes Your Prison
When the Thing That Protects You Becomes Your Prison
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Seu problema não são suas emoções, mas o seu pensamento
Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
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Marriage Day 26 – Crucible of Suffering: When Things Do Not Change
Marriage Day 26 – Crucible of Suffering When Things Do Not Change
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Nine Questions For the Tired, Overworked, and Ready to Quit Pastor
Nine Questions For the Tired, Overworked, and Ready to Quit Pastor
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Ep. 289 What Is the Best Way to Handle Secret Marriage Sins?
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Case Study: What About Biff?
Case Study What About Biff
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The Black Church Needs to Stop Idolizing the Pastor
The Black Church Needs to Stop Idolizing the Pastor
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Ep. 287 Considering the Curious Contours of Confession
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You Know Your Faith Is Real When
ou Know Your Faith Is Real When
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Diagnosing Disappointment with God When Trouble Comes
Diagnosing Disappointment with God When Trouble Comes
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Ep. 157 You Shouldn’t Make a Person’s Problems Your Main Focus
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A Reasonable Response to the Gun Control Debate
A Reasonable Response to the Gun Control Debate
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Ep. 61 Ten Great Ideas When Caring for Couples
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How to Divorce Well
How to Divorce Well
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Ep. 216 Should a Wife Be Intimate If She Doesn’t Want To Be?
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Why Should I Disciple If God Has to Grant Repentance First?
Why Should I Disciple If God Has to Grant Repentance First
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How Can I Get My Husband to Talk More?
How Can I Get My Husband to Talk More
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Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic
Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic
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When Desires for Love and Respect Destroy Your Marriage
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Psychiatric Drugs and Mass Shootings
Psychiatric Drugs and Mass Shootings
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Ep. 87 The Unintended Consequence of an Emotional Affair
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Ep. 209 Stop Criticizing Your Spouse and Friends On Facebook
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Ep. 208 How to Leave a Legalistic Church
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When Christianity Disappoints You: The Death Of My Brother
When Christianity Disappoints You The Death Of My Brother
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Ep. 202 The Reason I’m No Longer Part of the IABC
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The Necessity Of “Critiquing” Authority Structures
The Necessity Of Critiquing Authority Structures
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How to Practically Help Non-Christians with Marriage Problems
How to Practically Help Non-Christians with Marriage Problems
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Two Degrees of Woke: the Innocent Idealist and Angry Activist
Two Degrees of Woke the Innocent Idealist and Angry Activist
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Trusting God Is Good, But You Need More When Suffering Comes
Trusting God Is Good, But You Need More When Suffering Comes
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Ep. 316 A Visual Mindmap Walking through Church Conflict
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One Essential Quality Of an Effective Wife
One Essential Quality Of an Effective Wife
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Should My Church Change Its Practice On Alcohol?
Should My Church Change Its Practice On Alcohol
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Here Is a Useful Way to Connect the Gospel to Arguments
Here Is a Useful Way to Connect the Gospel to Arguments
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How to Rebuke Ann Voskamp and Other People Not Like You
How to Rebuke Ann Voskamp and Other People Not Like You
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Ep. 313 10 Helpful Ideas When Speaking against Cancel Culture
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Going Over Your Husband’s Head to Help Him
Going Over Your Husband’s Head to Help Him
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Ep. 312 Cancel Culture Manipulates You to See Things Their Way
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What Does Being a Victim Mean?
What Does Being a Victim Mean?
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The Effects of Being a Victim
The Effects of Being a Victim