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The videos in this section are from all our articles and Life Over Coffee podcast series. They are on various topics, all things about life and godliness.

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12 Tips to Help a Person Who Is Angry with Someone
12 Tips to Help a Person Who Is Angry with Someone
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9/11 Is a Study in Misplaced Faith and Hard Hearts
911 Is a Study in Misplaced Faith and Hard Hearts
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A Better Response to PTSD and Other Triggering Events
Ep. 464 A Better Response to PTSD and Other Triggering Events
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A Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness and Suicide
A Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness and Suicide
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A Crazy Idea For Sanctification: the Local Church
A Crazy Idea For Sanctification the Local Church
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A Few Integrationists Affirm My Point about BC’s Decline
A Few Integrationists Affirm My Point about BC’s Decline
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A Girl Kissing a Boy Is Different From a Boy Kissing a Girl
A Girl Kissing a Boy Is Different From a Boy Kissing a Girl
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A Lesbian Walked Into My Office Ready for Help
A Lesbian Walked Into My Office Ready for Help
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A Practical Plan to Break Free from Being Controlled by Others
A Practical Plan to Break Free from Being Controlled by Others
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A Prayer to Help You Walk in the Spirit
A Prayer to Help You Walk in the Spirit
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A Problem with Expecting Someone to Change
A Problem with Expecting Someone to Change
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A Profound Reason to Love That Difficult Person In Your Life
A Profound Reason to Love That Difficult Person In Your Life
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A Reasonable Response to the Gun Control Debate
A Reasonable Response to the Gun Control Debate
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Admitting Failure Gives You a Second Chance From God
Admitting Failure Gives You a Second Chance From God
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Am I a Sinner or a Saint, or Both?
Am I a Sinner or a Saint, or Both
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Am I To Forgive Someone Who Is Not Asking?
Am I To Forgive Someone Who Is Not Asking
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An Analysis of the Evolution and Superiority of the Christian Mind
An Analysis of the Evolution and Superiority of the Christian Mind
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An Effective Equipping Model for the Church
An Effective Equipping Model for the Church
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An Unusual Place to Talk about Exporting Modesty
An Unusual Place to Talk about Exporting Modesty
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Anger, Alleviation, and a Quest to Be God
Anger, Alleviation, and a Quest to Be God
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Are You Characterized as a Thankful Person?
Are You Characterized as a Thankful Person?
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Are You Committed to the Dearest Place on Earth?
Are You Committed to the Dearest Place on Earth
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Are You Generous? Understanding a Theology of Gift-Giving
Are You Generous Understanding a Theology of Gift-Giving
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Are You Happy? Time for a Post-Christmas Follow Up
Are You Happy Time for a Post-Christmas Follow Up
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Assessing My Heart the Morning after an American Election
Assessing My Heart the Morning after an American Election
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Beyond Your Ability Is Right Where God Wants You
Beyond Your Ability Is Right Where God Wants You
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Bringing God Down to My Level So I Can Argue With Him
Bringing God Down to My Level So I Can Argue With Him
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Can a Procrastinating, Undisciplined Person Do Your Program?
Can a Procrastinating, Undisciplined Person Do Your Program
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Christian Legalism: People Pleasing and Performance Traps
Christian Legalism: People Pleasing and Performance Traps
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Contentment Comes from the Blessing of Disappointment
Contentment Comes from the Blessing of Disappointment
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Dating: The Artificial Season That Does Not Count
Dating The Artificial Season That Doesn't Count
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Dealing with Difficult Relatives During the Holidays
Dealing with Difficult Relatives During the Holidays
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Dear Parents, Will You Stop Your Arguing? Please!
Dear Parents, Will You Stop Your Arguing Please!
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Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me?
Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me
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Diagnosing the Four Steps To a Hard Heart
Diagnosing the Four Steps To a Hard Heart
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Did You Know There Is a Better Way to Do Counseling?
There Is a Better Way to Do Counseling
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Do Unkind and Unfair Judgments Manage You?
Do Unkind and Unfair Judgments Manage You?
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Do You Understand the Point of Your Trouble
Do You Understand the Point of Your Trouble
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Don’t Make a Big Deal Out Of Biblical Counseling
Don't Make a Big Deal Out Of Biblical Counseling
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Do You Fight Fires or Change Lives?
Do You Fight Fires or Change Lives
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Do You Know How to Train Your Inner Voice
Do You Know How to Train Your Inner Voice01
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Do You Really Want to Know What God Is Thinking?
Do You Really Want to Know What God Is Thinking
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Eight Reasons Perfection Does Not Glorify God
Eight Reasons Perfection Does Not Glorify God
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Eight Responses to the Spouse Whose Spouse Left
Eight Responses to the Spouse Whose Spouse Left
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Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse in the Church
Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse in the Church
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Enjoying the Cultural and Christian Christmas
Enjoying the Cultural and Christian Christmas
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Finding Your Voice To Be Who God Wants You To Be
Finding Your Voice To Be Who God Wants You To Be
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Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make
Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make
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Five Helpful Marks to See If Someone Has Changed
Five Helpful Marks to See If Someone Has Changed
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Five Reasons to Curb or Get Off Social Media
Ep. 451 Five Reasons to Curb or Get Off Social Media
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Five Things to Know If You Want God’s Word to Master You
Five Things to Know If You Want God's Word to Master You
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Five Things You Need to Know to Change Your Life
Five Things You Need to Know to Change Your Life
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Forcing Someone to Change Will Blow Up Your Relationship
Forcing Someone to Change Will Blow Up Your Relationship
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Four Reasons the BC Movement Has Passed Its Prime
Four Reasons the BC Movement Has Passed Its Prime
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Four Reasons to Praise God For Your Imperfections
Four Reasons to Praise God For Your Imperfections
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Four Sequential Steps to Change Your Life
Four Sequential Steps to Change Your Life
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Four Things You Must Know About Your Suffering
Four Things You Must Know About Your Suffering
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God Is Incrementally and Purposely Putting You To Death
God Is Incrementally and Purposely Putting You To Death
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Have You Ever Tried Manipulative Praying?
Have You Ever Tried Manipulative Praying
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Help for the Angry and Those in the Line of Fire
Help for the Angry and Those in the Line of Fire
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Help Me Help My Difficult Relative
Help Me Help My Difficult Relative
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Here Is Practical Help for Anyone Stuck in a Bad Habit
Here Is Practical Help for Anyone Stuck in a Bad Habit
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Hope and Practical Help for Those Struggling with Depression
Hope and Practical Help for Those Struggling with Depression
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How Can a Christian Sin Like That and Say He’s a Christian
How Can a Christian Sin Like That and Say He’s a Christian
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How Can I Trust God When He Does Not Act the Way I Think?
How Can I Trust God When He Does Not Act the Way I Think
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How Do You Assess and Prepare a Future Pastor for Ministry?
How Do You Assess and Prepare a Future Pastor for Ministry?
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How Do You Counsel a Self-righteous Person?
How Do You Counsel a Self-righteous Person
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How Do You Help a Person Who Is Stuck on Herself?
How Do You Help a Person Who Is Stuck on Herself
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How Do You Leave Your Church?
How Do You Leave Your Church
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How Do You Respond to an Unkind Christian?
How Do You Respond to an Unkind Christian
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How Do You Want to Suffer, With or Without God?
How Do You Want to Suffer, With or Without God?
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How Does God See You, and Why Does It Matter?
How Does God See You, and Why Does It Matter?
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How Not to Harbor Hate Toward Someone
How Not to Harbor Hate Toward Someone
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How to Build and Enjoy Dynamic Community Life
How to Build and Enjoy Dynamic Community Life
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How to Care for Clueless People
How to Care for Clueless People
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How to Distinguish between Righteous and Unrighteous Anger
How to Distinguish between Righteous and Unrighteous Anger
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How to Have a Dynamic Small Group Experience
How to Have a Dynamic Small Group Experience
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How to Help a Teen with a Porn Problem
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How to Listen to Others Without Being Swayed by Them
How to Listen to Others Without Being Swayed by Them
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How to Motivate Christians to Stop Caring So Much
How to Motivate Christians to Stop Caring So Much
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How to Prepare Your Heart When a Tragedy Happens
How to Prepare Your Heart When a Tragedy Happens
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How to Respond to Angry People with Too Many Needs
How to Respond to Angry People with Too Many Needs
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How to Respond to a Fallen Christian Leader
How to Respond to a Fallen Christian Leader
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How to Respond When Blindsided While Doing Good
How to Respond When Blindsided While Doing Good
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How to Steward God’s Most Feared Blessing
How to Steward God's Most Feared Blessing
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How To Talk Behind Someone’s Back
How To Talk Behind Someone’s Back
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How to Think about a God Who Permits Sin in Your Life
How to Think about a God Who Permits Sin in Your Life
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How to Think Straight When the Gaslighter Is Gaslighting You
How to Think Straight When the Gaslighter Is Gaslighting You
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“I Am Mad at God. There, I Said It.”
“I Am Mad at God. There, I Said It.”
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I Met a Christian Who Refuses to Walk Away from His Sin
I Met a Christian Who Refuses to Walk Away from His Sin
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I Want More Than God; I Want Someone to Love Me
I Want More Than God; I Want Someone to Love Me
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If Your Friend Is Not Changing, Consider This
If Your Friend Is Not Changing, Consider This
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I’m Angry at God Because He Did Not Help Me
I'm Angry at God Because He Did Not Help Me
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I’m Imperfect, You’re Imperfect, Let’s Get Over Ourselves
I’m Imperfect, You’re Imperfect, Let’s Get over Ourselves
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Is It Okay for Christians to Use Online Dating Apps?
Ep. 496 Is It Okay for Christians to Use Online Dating Apps
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Is Your Church a Preaching Center or a Discipleship Community
Is Your Church a Preaching Center or a Discipleship Community
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It’s Easier to Trust God When You’re In Control
It's Easier to Trust God When You're In Control
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It’s “Okay” to Be Gay, and You Need to Know Why
It’s "Okay" to Be Gay, and You Need to Know Why
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Just When You Thought Things Were Going Well
Just When You Thought Things Were Going Well
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Knowing You’re Bad Is the Beginning of Being Good
Knowing You're Bad Is the Beginning of Being Good
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Learning How to Trust the Author of Your Story
Learning How to Trust the Author of Your Story
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Loving Me The Hidden Agenda of Self-esteem
Loving Me The Hidden Agenda of Self-Esteem
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Lowering God’s Standard To Be Perfect
Lowering God's Standard To Be Perfect
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Mind Mapping A Detailed Study In Self-Reliance
Mind Mapping A Detailed Study In Self-Reliance
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My Church Doesn’t Do Community Well, and I’m Struggling
My Church Doesn't Do Community Well, and I’m Struggling
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Narcissism Is a Bad Label for a Real Problem, Part One
Narcissism Is a Bad Label for a Real Problem, Part One
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Narcissism Limits of Labels and Descriptive Psychology, Part Two
Narcissism Limitations of Labels and Descriptive Psychology, Part Two
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No Thanks for Thanksgiving: Confession of a Former Lonely Man
No Thanks for Thanksgiving Confession of a Former Lonely Man
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Now That I Want Forgiveness, How Do I Handle My Past Sins?
Now That I Want Forgiveness, How Do I Handle My Past Sins?
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People with Different Character and Capacity Issues
People with Different Character and Capacity Issues
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Pick an Enemy! Now, Will You Do What Jesus Said? Love Them!
Pick an Enemy! Now, Will You Do What Jesus Said? Love Them!
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Practical Advice on Growing Older and Finishing Well
Ep. 493 Practical Advice on Growing Older and Finishing Well
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Practical Thoughts On Leading Your Husband
Practical Thoughts On Leading Your Husband
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Pre-forgiveness Is Essential Before You Can Genuinely Forgive
Pre-forgiveness Is Essential Before You Can Genuinely Forgive
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Proactive Plan For Leadership Development in the Church
Proactive Plan For Leadership Development in the Church
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Rick’s Personal Testimony
Rick's Personal Testimony
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Secrets That Teach You How to Write Compelling Blog Content
Secrets That Teach You How to Write Compelling Blog Content
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Seven Considerations for Challenging Friends
Seven Considerations for Challenging Friends
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Seven Reasons a Person Will Not Change
Seven Reasons a Person Will Not Change
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Seven-Step Template For Change When Trouble Comes
Seven-Step Template For Change When Trouble Comes
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Seven Tips For Living With An Imperfect Person
Seven Tips For Living With An Imperfect Person
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Seven Tips to Help Your Friends Who Are Suffering
Seven Tips to Help Your Friends Who Are Suffering
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Seven Ways Biblical Counselors Can Innovate
Seven Ways Biblical Counselors Can Innovate
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Should Christians Separate from Sinners?
Should Christian Separate from Sinners
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Should I Bring a Baby Into Our Evil World?
Ep. 460 Should I Bring a Baby Into Our Evil World
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Should I Keep My Friend’s Sin Secret?
Should I Keep My Friend’s Sin Secret
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Should I Separate from Sinful People in My Church?
Should I Separate from Sinful People in My Church
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Silent Treatment Is the Sanitized Version of Murder
Silent Treatment Is the Sanitized Version of Murder
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Six Thoughtful and Practical Responses to Halloween
Six Thoughtful and Practical Responses to Halloween
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Speaking to the Injustices in Our Culture
Ep. 453 Speaking to the Injustices in Our Culture
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Spiritual Warfare: Tips for Fighting in the Spirit World
Spiritual Warfare: Tips for Fighting in the Spirit World
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Suffering and Leadership, the Gifts You Need
Suffering and Leadership, the Gifts You Need
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Ten Keys to Reduce the Noise in Your Soul
Ten Keys to Reduce the Noise in Your Soul
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Ten Responses to the Friend Who Won’t Admit Wrong
Ten Responses to the Friend Who Won't Admit Wrong
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Ten Sequential Steps When Correcting Others
Ten Sequential Steps When Correcting Others
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Ten Steps Leading to Toxic Christian Femininity
Ten Steps Leading to Toxic Christian Femininity
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Ten Step Process to a Hard Heart
Ten Step Process to a Hard Heart
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Ten Things to Consider When You Confront Someone
Ten Things to Consider When You Confront Someone
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Ten Vital Keys for Small Group Leaders
Ep. 492 Ten Vital Keys for Small Group Leaders
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The Benefit of Being Intentionally Intrusive in Our Relationships
The Benefit of Being Intentionally Intrusive in Our Relationships
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The Cure for Low Self-esteem
The Cure For Low Self-Esteem
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The Damaging Effects of Our Anger When We Don’t Own It
The Damaging Effects of Our Anger When We Don't Own It
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The Dangerous Dark Side of a Shared Belief System
The Dangerous Dark Side of a Shared Belief System
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The Dangerous Doctrine of Forgiving Yourself
The Dangerous Doctrine of Forgiving Yourself
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The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem
The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem
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The First and Unique Step To Solving Your Problems
The First and Unique Step to Solving Your Problems
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The Four Types of Transformative Listening
The Four Types of Transformative Listening
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The Gospel Is More Than a Birth-to-Death Story
The Gospel Is More Than a Birth-to-Death Story
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The Grace That Comes to Those Who Practice Fasting
The Grace That Comes to Those Who Practice Fasting
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The Internet Is the New Frontier for Angry People
The Internet Is the New Frontier for Angry People
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The Interplay of Truth and Freedom That Sets You Free
The Interplay of Truth and Freedom That Sets You Free
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The Main Thing to Look for When Looking for a Church
The Main Thing to Look For When Looking For a Church
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The Man Who Destroyed Our Home Wants Forgiveness
The Man Who Destroyed Our Home Wants Forgiveness
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The Most Effective Way to Feel Better About Yourself
The Most Effective Way to Feel Better About Yourself
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The Most Perfect Relationship You Will Ever Have
The Most Perfect Relationship You Will Ever Have
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The Mystery and Misunderstanding about Being Worthless
The Mystery and Misunderstanding about Being Worthless
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The Need to Forgive Even If You Don’t Reconcile
The Need to Forgive Even If You Don’t Reconcile
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The One Thing We Must Do: Step Down from Our Thrones
The One Thing We Must Do Step Down from Our Thrones
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The Particulars of the Sex Talk I Had With Our Son
The Particulars of the Sex Talk I Had With Our Son
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The Perfect Place to Reveal Your Dysfunctional Self
The Perfect Place to Reveal Your Dysfunctional Self
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The Perfect Self-Help Book That Will Change Your Life
The Perfect Self-Help Book That Will Change Your Life
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The Power of Unforgiveness When Used as a Weapon
The Power of Unforgiveness When Used as a Weapon
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The Preface to My Book, Suffering Well
The Preface to My Book, Suffering Well
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The Problem with Cursing the Sun
The Problem with Cursing the Sun
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The Problem With God’s Kindness When You Want to Be Angry
The Problem With God's Kindness When You Want to Be Angry
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The Reason God Wants You to Be a Fragile Jar of Clay
The Reason God Wants You to Be a Fragile Jar of Clay
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The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ
The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ
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The Reason I Stopped Hating My Dad Was Life-Changing
The Reason I Stopped Hating My Dad Was Life-Changing
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The Reason What You Believe and What You Do Are Different
The Reason What You Believe and What You Do Are Different
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The Relatives Are Coming for the Holidays; What Am I to Do?
The Relatives Are Coming for the Holidays; What Am I to Do
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The Risky Business of Looking for Change In Someone
The Risky Business of Looking for Change In Someone
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The Sad Side to The Blind Side
The Sad Side to The Blind Side
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The Santa Claus Question: What Do I Tell My Children?
The Santa Claus Question What Do I Tell My Children
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The Second Most Important Question You Can Ask Your Church
The Second Most Important Question You Can Ask Your Church
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The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens
The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens
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The Terrible Lengths God Will Go To For Your Good
The Terrible Lengths God Will Go To For Your Good
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The Toxic and Damaging Effects of the Angry Dad
The Toxic and Damaging Effects of the Angry Dad
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The Uncomfortable Benefit of God Being Silent
The Uncomfortable Benefit of God Being Silent
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The Unparalleled Benefit of Living In an Unchangeable Situation
The Unparalleled Benefit of Living In an Unchangeable Situation
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The Wisdom of Introducing Sin to Our Families
The Wisdom of Introducing Sin to Our Families
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Thirteen Ways to Respond to Relatives Who Reject You
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Three Characteristics of a Fantastic Local Church
Three Characteristics of a Fantastic Local Church_
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Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader
Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader
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Three Keys to Help You Look Beyond Your Suffering
Three Keys to Help You Look Beyond Your Suffering
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Three Things To Know When Life Does Not Make Sense
Three Things To Know When Life Does Not Make Sense
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To Be Angry Is to Be a Puppet on a String
To Be Angry Is to Be a Puppet on a String
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To Those Who Are Angry with God for the Life They Have
To Those Who Are Angry with God for the Life They Have
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Twelve Things to Know about Parental Discipline
Twelve Things to Know about Parental Discipline
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Twelve Tough Questions that Examine Your Maturity
Twelve Tough Questions that Examine Your Maturity
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Typical Mistakes People Make to Feel Better
Typical Mistakes People Make to Feel Better
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What Does It Mean to Boast in Your Weakness?
What Does It Mean to Boast in Your Weakness?
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What Does It Mean to Live a Gospel-centered Life
Ep. 465 What Does It Mean to Live a Gospel-centered Life
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What Does It Mean to Love Others As You Love Yourself?
What Does It Mean to Love Others As You Love Yourself
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What Happens to a Person Who Exchanges the Truth for a Lie
What Happens to a Person Who Exchanges the Truth for a Lie
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What Happens to Me When I Won’t Forgive Someone?
What Happens to Me When I Won’t Forgive Someone?
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What If I Forgive But They Never Change?
What If I Forgive But They Never Change?
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What Is Forgiveness and How to Do It
What Is Forgiveness and How to Do It
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What Is the Cyber Effect? What You Can Do About It
What Is the Cyber Effect and What You Can Do About It
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What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader?
What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader Are You One
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What Kind Of Church Do You Attend? Here Are Six Models.
What Kind Of Church Do You Attend Here Are Six Models.
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What Qualities Do You Look for in a Pastor?
What Qualities Do You Look for in a Pastor
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What You Can Do about Real World Cyber Effects, 1.0
What You Can Do about Real World Cyber Effects, 1.0
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What You Can Do about the Identity Cyber Effects, 2.0
What You Can Do about the Identity Cyber Effects, 2.0
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What to Do about Stranger Cyber Effects, 3.0
What to Do about Stranger Cyber Effects, 3.0
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What to Do about Disinhibition Cyber Effects, 4.0
What to Do about Disinhibition Cyber Effects, 4.0
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What to Do about Sanctification Cyber Effects, 5.0
What to Do about Sanctification Cyber Effects, 5.0
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What You Can Do about Blue Light Cyber Effects, 6.0
What You Can Do about Blue Light Cyber Effects, 6.0
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What You Can Do about Accountability Cyber Effects, 7.0
What You Can Do about Accountability Cyber Effects, 7.0
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What You Can Do about Migration Cyber Effects, 8.0
What You Can Do about Migration Cyber Effects, 8.0
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When Aging Parents No Longer Walk with God
Ep. 429 When Aging Parents No Longer Walk with God
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When God Does Not Come Through For You
When God Does Not Come Through For You
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When God Hurls a Storm At You
When God Hurls a Storm At You
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When God Whittles You Down to Size
When God Whittles You Down to Size
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When Education Becomes Deadly To a Child
When Education Becomes Deadly To a Child
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When I Was Silent About My Sin
When I Was Silent About My Sin
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When She’s Ashamed to Share Her Story with You
When She's Ashamed to Share Her Story with You
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When Suffering Reaches the Limits of Your Endurance
When Suffering Reaches the Limits of Your Endurance
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When the Local Church Won’t Help You
When the Local Church Won't Help You
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When the Parent’s Anger Complicates the Life of the Child
When the Parent’s Anger Complicates the Life of the Child
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When Unforgiveness Lingers, Bitterness Enters
When Unforgiveness Lingers, Bitterness Enters
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When You Feel That God Is Not With You
When You Feel That God Is Not With You
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When You Get Angry, Do You See Yourself Correctly?
When You Get Angry, Do You See Yourself Correctly
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When You Give More Than Money, You’re More Like Christ
When You Give More Than Money, You're More Like Christ
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Why Do You Attend Your Church?
Why Do You Attend Your Church?
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Why Does God Call Us to Suffer?
Why Does God Call Us to Suffer?
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Why Gospel-centered Is Better Than Grace-centered and Legalism
Why Gospel-centered Is Better Than Grace-centered and Legalism
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Why It Is So Hard to Repent of Sinful Pride
Why It Is So Hard to Repent of Sinful Pride
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Why Julie Roys Is a Dangerous Investigative Journalist
Why Julie Roys Is a Dangerous Investigative Journalist
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Your Ex-spouse Has the Kids, and You’re Afraid
Your Ex-spouse Has the Kids, and You’re Afraid
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You Know Your Faith Is Real When
You Know Your Faith Is Real When
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You Need More Than Preaching If You Want to Change
You Need More Than Preaching If You Want to Change