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When helping someone navigate their struggles and habits, it’s crucial to understand that their temptations stem from their hearts. The real issue is the desire within, not merely the external factors causing them to stumble. While the external influences are significant, they are secondary to the primary concern.
James explains it clearly in James 1:14: “Each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desires. Then desire, when it has conceived, gives birth to sin, and sin, when it is fully grown, brings forth death.” This emphasizes the starting point of our temptations. If we wrongly assume our temptations come solely from the outside world, we risk adopting a gnostic lifestyle—separating from the world and ignoring that temptation originates in our hearts.
Consider common temptations like alcohol, money, lust, food, and technology. We might be tempted to adopt a legalistic approach, eliminating these from our lives, yet failing to address the heart’s condition. The sin lies within our hearts.
Understanding James’ message is crucial. It’s not inherently wrong to be around these things. However, if they stir sinful temptations within you, it is wise to limit your exposure to them. Hebrews 12 advises us to mortify these temptations, and Matthew 5 suggests cutting them off if necessary. Ultimately, it’s about recognizing the source—the desire in the heart—and addressing it directly.