48 Case Studies 23: The Aspiring Counselor Wannabe

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Biff, a 42-year-old husband and father, believes the Lord is calling him to pursue a biblical counseling ministry. Seven years into his Christian walk, Biff is zealous about helping others through the transformative power of the gospel. His marriage is stable, and his wife supports his desire to serve. However, both Biff and Mable come from dysfunctional family backgrounds, which continue to influence aspects of their family dynamics.

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While Biff’s passion for ministry is evident, he humbly acknowledges he is still learning what it means to lead his family well and deepen his faith. He desires guidance on how to prepare for a counseling ministry in a way that honors God and equips him to help others effectively.

Biff has taken the initial steps, such as reading counseling books and seeking advice from mature believers in his church. However, he recognizes areas of needed growth, including deeper theological understanding, consistent spiritual leadership, and addressing lingering patterns from his past. He also wants advice on balancing his ministry preparation with his responsibilities at home, ensuring his calling does not overshadow his commitment to his family or his need to mature. Biff hopes for a clear, practical path to pursue his ministry aspirations while continuing to grow in Christlikeness.

Case Study Questions

1. What encouragement would you give Biff about his desire to serve?
2. What potential concerns would you raise about his readiness?
3. What steps would you recommend for Biff’s personal and spiritual preparation?
4. How would you balance affirming his passion with addressing areas that need growth?

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Rick Thomas

Rick launched the Life Over Coffee global training network in 2008 to bring hope and help for you and others by creating resources that spark conversations for transformation. His primary responsibilities are resource creation and leadership development, which he does through speaking, writing, podcasting, and educating.

In 1990 he earned a BA in Theology and, in 1991, a BS in Education. In 1993, he received his ordination into Christian ministry, and in 2000 he graduated with an MA in Counseling from The Master’s University. In 2006 he was recognized as a Fellow of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC).