Search Results for “abuse”

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The Abuse of Abuse Is Complicating Legitimate Abuse

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How Do You Respond When Abuse and Submission Collide?

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Four Things to Know When Working through Abuse

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The Carefulness and Competence Needed When Helping the Abused

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Can a Christian Divorce Another Christian For Abuse?

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Ep. 418 Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make

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Spiritual Abuse – When It Is Time To Leave

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Abuse Is Not the Best Way to Talk about the Problem with Abuse

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Ep. 412 Do We Have to Twist Scripture to Help Victims of Abuse?

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A Cry For the Victims Of Sexual Abuse

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Four Shades to Domestic Abuse

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Eight Signs of Spiritual Abuse to See If It’s Happening to You

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Why the Term Emotional Abuse Is Unhelpful and Misleading

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Ep. 408 The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens

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Practically Navigating the Contours to Help an Abuse Victim

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When the Abuse You See Clouds Biblical Interpretations

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A Tempting Facade for Defense That Further Enslaves the Abused

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Ep. 351 Why Most Biblical Counselors Should Not Take on Abuse Cases

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Ep. 370 A Practical Response to Sexual Abuse in the Church

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Ep. 372 Response to Grudem’s New View on Abuse and Divorce

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Ep. 213 Answers Questions on Abuse, Church, and Forgiveness

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Ep. 342 Interview with Rick Thomas and Julie Ganschow on Abuse

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Abuse, Suffering, and Other Painful Disappointments

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Case Study: The Sexually Abused

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Ep. 133 Dianne Keech On the Church, Abuse, and Parenting

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Ep. 242 Rick Answers Questions about Abuse and More

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Ep. 47 Should a Pastor Beat and Abuse His Wife?

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Ep. 187 Is Depression a Sin When Others Abuse You?

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How to Know If Your Victimhood Has Become Your Identity

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Thinking of Yourself as Victim Is One of the Worst Things You Can Do

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Ep. 389 Comprehensive Data-Gathering Is Crucial to Help Victims

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Storyboarding Marriage—From Dysfunction to Restoration

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Foster Children – The Forgotten Victims Of Abuse

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Ep. 132 Dianne Keech S.A.F.E. Child Protection Consulting

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Should I Count My Mean Husband More Significant than Me?

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An Appeal from a Former Sovereign Grace Ministries Pastor

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Ep. 409 Why Julie Roys Is a Dangerous Investigative Journalist

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Why It Is So Hard to Repent of Sinful Pride

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Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life

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What Is Gaslighting, Its Effects, and How to React to It?

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God Is Not on Your Side: You’re on His Side, or You’re Not

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The Remarkable Way God Uses Your Brokenness to Heal You

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You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore

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Ep. 376 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 13

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What Are Your Thoughts About Wolves and Weeds In the Church?

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Ep. 413 The Problem with Wounded Theology and Victim Identity

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Ep. 467 Nancy Pearcey, The Toxic War on Masculinity

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I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar: Thoughts on Feminism

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Ep. 243 How to Leave Churches, Ministries, Employers, Etc.

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How the Ongoing Sin of Others Impacts Your Health

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The Ten-Point Checklist When Abuse Happens

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How to Help an Abuser

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Ep. 266 When Biblical Counselors Don’t Act like Biblical Counselors

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The Destructive Force of Empathy, and Why You Need to Know

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How to Help People with Different Opinions When Both Are Right

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Ep. 367 Is It Wise for Me to Attend a Sovereign Grace Church?

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It Is Not Remotely Possible to Break God’s Heart

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When Unforgiveness Lingers, Bitterness Enters

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Ep. 196 Understanding the Exhausting Work of Being a Pastor

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Ep. 362 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 10

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I’m Angry at God Because He Did Not Help Me

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Guess What? Your Marriage Is Supposed To Kill You

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Ep. 258 Suffering and Leadership, the Gifts You Need

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Inferiority of a Diagnosis, and the Abuse Construct

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Post-Traumatic Stress Is Not a Disorder

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Five Common Mistakes Abuse Counselors Make

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The Fallacy and Futility Of Self-Esteem

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Ep. 307 Stop Using My Resources to Make a Person Conform

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Dear Evangelical, It’s Unwise and Unhelpful to Mock Joel Osteen

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Submission Is Never The Main Problem In Marriage

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Interview With a Victim of Adultery

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Ep. 153 You Don’t Need a Verse for Everything You Do

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Ep. 396 Why ACBC Does Not Accept Our Training

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How Do You Leave Your Church?

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When Your Preferred Reality Clashes with Your Fallen Reality

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Ep. 58 Help Me Help My Difficult Relative

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Ep. 395 God Does Not Become Sad When You Hurt

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Twenty Questions When You’re Hurt By Your Church

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The Sobering Reason It’s Hard to Overcome Insecurity

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Is It Wrong for Christians to Have Fun in a Dark World?

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What Are You to Do When God Does Not Respond Like You Hoped?

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20 Facts to Know about the Construct of ADHD

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How Do I Begin a Counseling Ministry at My Church?

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Double Confession: How to Respond When Sinned Against

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The Surprising Truth of Why a Husband Devalues His Wife

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A Unique Wife Helping a Unique Man Change

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Ep. 201 Comparing Authoritarian and Delegating Church Models

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Four People Types Who Get Stuck In a Rut

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Should a Wife Submit To an Unrepentant Husband?

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How to Train Your Flea, or How to Control Others

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Why Our Ministry Is Different from Other Counseling Ministries

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I Met a Christian Who Refuses to Walk Away from His Sin

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Ep. 423 Four Reasons the BC Movement Has Passed Its Prime

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How Our Behaviors May Push Others Away from Christ

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Ep. 179 The Mysterious Interplay of Fear, Anger, and Self-Reliance

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A Note to Quiet People: It’s Time to Start Talking

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What Can I Do About Being Fearful of Discipling Others?

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How to Turn Your Arguments Into Redemptive Communication

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Do You Qualify to Have a Spouse?

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Wise Parents Teach Their Children How to Curse

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The Danger of Hating the Sin and Loving the Sinner

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Pick an Enemy! Will You Do What Jesus Said: Love Them?

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Why Each Person Needs Care According to Their Uniqueness

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Ep. 212 Johnny & Friends, Plus Beth Moore

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Dear Pastor, Do You Groan When You Think of Me?

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Being Honest about ADHD

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Understanding How Your Enemy Is God’s Kindness To You

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My Mother Died Last Night—A Few Thoughts After Life

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Ep. 358 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 6

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Ep. 353 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 1

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The Reason I Dated a Lesbian Was to Share Christ

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When You Unknowingly Act Like the Unkind People You Decry

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Ep. 357 Response to The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill, Episode 5

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Is It Wrong To Critique Your Pastor’s Sermons?

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Every Person Who Withholds the Truth Is Not Lying

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The Need to Know How Choices to Feel Better Are Addictive

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Ep. 228 The Tragedy of Imitating Your Favorite Leader

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What Qualities Do You Look for in a Pastor?

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Submission Is Repugnant. What Do You Think of Me?

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Eight Practical and Transforming Ways to Think About Your Past

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Three Characteristics of a Wonderful Leader

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Five Things You Need to Know to Change Your Life

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Ep. 225 Why Some Certified Biblical Counselors Harm People

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Ep. 349 How We Help Local Churches, Practically Speaking

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Ep. 224 My Church Is Not Transparent and It’s Frustrating

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The Perfect Place to Reveal Your Dysfunctional Self

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How to Respond to Angry People with Too Many Needs

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How to Love a Woke Person Who Does Not Love You

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Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve?

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How to Use Your Imagination to Help People Love God

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The Dynamics of the Old and New Selves

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What Is the Litmus Test for a Leader? Are You One?

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How Conflict Addresses Motives, Leading to Redemptive Solutions

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What Does Nourish and Cherish Your Wife Mean?

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Church Discipline: How to Help a Person Get Right with God

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Recovering, Rejoicing, But Refusing to Forget the Pain

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Why Do You Attend Your Church?

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Why Can’t I Have My Life the Way I Want It, on My Terms?

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Three Mind Maps to Move You from Despair to Joy

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The First Thing to Know When Caring For Someone

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When Obedience Collides With My Emotions

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Day 4 – Teen Devotion: Forget About Self-Esteem

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Ep. 125 A Weak Church Model: The Regular Attender

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Ep. 249 What Is Reactive Racism and Reflective Racism?

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Ep. 146 A Different Kind of “Happy Ever After” Marriage

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The Intricate Reasons a Teen Boy Rejects His Mother

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Ep. 279 The Problem of Blaming Men for Relationship Problems

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When a Parachurch Ministry Tries to Run the Church

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Connecting the Gospel to a God Who Is Silent

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The Reason I Stopped Hating My Dad Was Life-Changing

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Ep. 220 My Church Is Falling Apart, and It’s Devastating to Me

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A Reasonable Response to the Gun Control Debate

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Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You

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Let Me Tell You About My White Privilege

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Ep. 180 It’s Critical to Know that You’ll Always Be Angry

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Mind Mapping the Best Marriage Help You’ll Ever Find

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Ep. 175 When You’re Insecure around Certain People

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Ep. 299 How to Interact with a Pastor with Known Sin

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Ep. 297 Knowing How to Live Out Practical Forgiveness Is Essential

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Ep. 296 Practical Advice for Those Struggling with Deep Hurts

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Ep. 421 Ten Steps Leading to Toxic Christian Femininity

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Ep. 168 The Dawning Reality of Who You Really Married

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When the Thing That Protects You Becomes Your Prison

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Seu problema não são suas emoções, mas o seu pensamento

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The Negative Effect of Fundamentalism On the Soul

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Nine Questions For the Tired, Overworked, and Ready to Quit Pastor

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Ep. 289 What Is the Best Way to Handle Secret Marriage Sins?

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Case Study: What About Biff?

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The Black Church Needs to Stop Idolizing the Pastor

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Ep. 287 Considering the Curious Contours of Confession

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You Know Your Faith Is Real When

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Diagnosing Disappointment with God When Trouble Comes

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Ep. 157 You Shouldn’t Make a Person’s Problems Your Main Focus

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Ep. 154 The Tricky Contours of Sermon Application

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Ep. 61 Ten Great Ideas When Caring for Couples

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Marriage Day 26 – Crucible of Suffering: When Things Do Not Change

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How to Divorce Well

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How to Practically Help Non-Christians with Marriage Problems

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Ep. 216 Should a Wife Be Intimate If She Doesn’t Want To Be?

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How Can I Get My Husband to Talk More?

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Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic

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When Desires for Love and Respect Destroy Your Marriage

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Psychiatric Drugs and Mass Shootings

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Ep. 87 The Unintended Consequence of an Emotional Affair

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Ep. 209 Stop Criticizing Your Spouse and Friends On Facebook

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Ep. 208 How to Leave a Legalistic Church

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When Christianity Disappoints You: The Death Of My Brother

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Ep. 202 The Reason I’m No Longer Part of the IABC

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Why Should I Disciple If God Has to Grant Repentance First?

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The Necessity Of “Critiquing” Authority Structures

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Two Degrees of Woke: the Innocent Idealist and Angry Activist

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Trusting God Is Good, But You Need More When Suffering Comes

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Ep. 316 A Visual Mindmap Walking through Church Conflict

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Should My Church Change Its Practice On Alcohol?

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Here Is a Useful Way to Connect the Gospel to Arguments

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How to Rebuke Ann Voskamp and Other People Not Like You

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Ep. 313 10 Helpful Ideas When Speaking against Cancel Culture

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Ep. 312 Cancel Culture Manipulates You to See Things Their Way

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What Does Being a Victim Mean?

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The Effects of Being a Victim