Affection for Christ

This graphic illustrates the profound impact that our affections have on our entire being—our desires, thoughts, behaviors, and ultimately, our lives. The central idea is that whatever we hold dear or cherish (our “affection”) becomes the driving force behind our desires. These desires, in turn, shape our thoughts, which then influence our behaviors. This process is a natural progression that underscores the importance of aligning our deepest affections with what is truly good and righteous.

1. Affection as the Core: The large circle in the center labeled “Affection” represents the core of our being. It signifies what we treasure most, what we are passionate about, and what occupies our hearts. This affection is the starting point, the source from which everything else flows.
2. Influence on Desires: The first branch off the central circle is “My Desires.” Our affections directly influence our desires. If our affection is set on worldly things, our desires will be for worldly pleasures. Conversely, if our affection is set on Christ, our desires will be aligned with His will and purposes.
3. Impact on Thoughts: The second branch is “My Thoughts.” Our desires fuel our thoughts. What we desire, we think about. For instance, if we desire success, our thoughts will be consumed with ways to achieve it. Similarly, if our desire is to honor Christ, our thoughts will be focused on ways to please Him.
4. Determination of Behaviors: The final branch is “My Life,” which encapsulates our words, behaviors, or actions. Our thoughts lead to our behaviors. If our thoughts are shaped by godly desires, our behaviors will reflect Christlike qualities. Conversely, if our thoughts are driven by selfish desires, our behaviors will be self-centered.

Biblical Context

The graphic ties into the biblical principle found in Matthew 7:16, “By their fruit, you shall know them.” This verse highlights the connection between what is in our hearts (our affections) and the visible evidence in our lives (our fruit). The fruit, which represents our words and actions, is a direct reflection of our affections. If someone exhibits ungodly behavior, it can often be traced back to an affection for something other than Christ.

Jesus also taught in Matthew 6:24 that “No one can serve two masters… You cannot serve God and money.” This teaching emphasizes that our affection cannot be divided. If we try to split our affection between God and worldly things, one will inevitably take precedence over the other. Therefore, for those who wish to produce godly fruit, it is essential to have Christ as their transcendent affection.

Case Study: A Person with Misplaced Affections

Background:
Biff is a successful entrepreneur who has dedicated his life to building his business. Over the years, his affection has shifted towards wealth and recognition. This has become the central focus of his life, influencing his desires, thoughts, and behaviors.

Current State:

1. Desires: Biff desires more wealth, power, and status. These desires drive him to make decisions that prioritize profit over people, leading to unethical business practices.
2. Thoughts: His thoughts are consumed with strategies to increase his wealth and maintain his status. He constantly worries about competition and fears losing his success.
3. Behaviors: Biff’s behaviors reflect his affection for wealth. He neglects his family, ignores opportunities to help others, and engages in practices that are at odds with his professed Christian faith.
4. Consequences: Biff’s life is marked by stress, strained relationships, and a growing sense of emptiness. Despite his material success, he feels unfulfilled and disconnected from God.

Path to Change:
To realign his life, Biff must first acknowledge that his affection for wealth has taken the place that rightfully belongs to Christ. He needs to repent and intentionally shift his focus from material success to spiritual growth.

• Step 1: Reevaluate Desires: Biff needs to reorient his desires toward God. This might involve setting aside time for prayer, meditation on Scripture, and seeking God’s will in all areas of his life.
• Step 2: Renew Thoughts: As his desires change, Biff’s thoughts will begin to align with his renewed affection for Christ. He should fill his mind with things that are true, honorable, and praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8).
• Step 3: Transform Behaviors: Finally, as Biff’s thoughts are renewed, his behaviors will naturally follow. He will start making decisions that reflect Christ’s love and justice, leading to a life that bears good fruit.

Outcome:
By making Christ his transcendent affection, Biff will experience a profound transformation. His life will begin to produce Christlike fruit—words and actions that reflect the love, peace, and righteousness of God. This change will not only bring fulfillment to Biff but also positively impact those around him, bringing glory to God.