Shaping Influences 02

When you’re helping someone in discipleship, it’s crucial to understand their shaping influences. The first part of this discussion addresses the two primary shaping influences.

First, we are made in the image of God, as seen in Genesis 1 and 2. “Let us make man in our image” refers to the Imago Dei, signifying that we are distinct from the animal kingdom. We have the capacity for change, understanding, knowledge interaction, love, and a desire for community. These are positive aspects of being made in God’s image, and this influence is still present in us today.

Despite the fall in Genesis 3:6, where Adam’s transgression led to our hearts becoming totally depraved, we remain made in the image of God. Total depravity means we are darkened through and through, capable of boundless sinning, yet still retaining the Imago Dei. This duality—being totally depraved yet made in God’s image—shapes everything in our lives.

Every individual is uniquely fallen, meaning while we are all totally depraved, we have different proclivities. This uniqueness can be seen in our children. For instance, one child might have a labyrinthine mind, processing information deeply and analytically, while another might be highly intuitive, possessing strong common sense. A third child could be quick-minded, able to think rapidly. These differences illustrate our unique fallenness.

When discipling someone, it’s essential to recognize and understand their unique nature. Avoid projecting your experiences onto them. Instead, explore their individuality, considering various shaping influences like genetic factors, in utero experiences, and personal choices.

To delve deeper into these concepts, I recommend watching my one-hour webinar at Life Over Coffee, which covers these topics in detail. As you gather data to understand the person, consider these shaping influences to create a comprehensive picture.

Remember, despite our total depravity and unique fallenness, the gospel offers hope. Through it, we can become new creations in Christ, transformed by His grace.