My husband thinks I’m hot but that does not kill my insecurity. I’ve tried killing it by asking a million times if he thinks I look good. What’s the difference between me and the women he’s been with or even just looking at? We all look nice. I feel like a Skittle in a bag. They all taste good, have a nice color, just different.
What makes a wife different from all the other women a guy has had sex with or a lust filled thought? Why would I matter if he can find any attractive body just about anywhere? Sometimes men leave their wives for someone else and it’s like nothing ever even mattered.
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It is a process that does not happen quickly.
It takes communication, either with your husband or a close friend.
It is active participation with the Lord, which means you have to learn how to trust the Lord:
Rick launched the Life Over Coffee global training network in 2008 to bring hope and help for you and others by creating resources that spark conversations for transformation. His primary responsibilities are resource creation and leadership development, which he does through speaking, writing, podcasting, and educating.
In 1990 he earned a BA in Theology and, in 1991, a BS in Education. In 1993, he received his ordination into Christian ministry, and in 2000 he graduated with an MA in Counseling from The Master’s University. In 2006 he was recognized as a Fellow of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC).