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48 Case Studies 44: Confession of an Imposter’s Wife

Case Study Confession of an Imposter's Wife

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Mable feels trapped in a marriage where her husband, Biff, has emotionally and relationally checked out. His indifference has tempted her to find self-worth through a series of surrogate husbands, such as achievements, ministry, and activities, none of which have provided the fulfillment she craves.

Life Over Coffee · 48 Case Studies 44: Confession of an Imposter’s Wife

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In an attempt to fill the void, Mable immersed herself in Christian disciplines such as commitment, service, and duty. However, these efforts have left her exhausted and joyless. While she continues to strive outwardly and inwardly, she feels unseen, unheard, and unvalued.

Mable describes Biff as once creative and engaged in their relationship. Now, she views him as self-absorbed, pursuing personal gratification while drifting aimlessly through life. She wants him to fight for her, rescue her, and rediscover the adventurer he used to be. Instead, she sees a man she calls an imposter, disconnected from life and their marriage.

Mable seeks counseling with a desire to see her marriage restored but is unsure how to proceed if Biff chooses to remain unrepentant. She wants to honor God but feels overwhelmed by the relational void and her fading hope for reconciliation. She wonders if there’s a way forward for her, even without her husband’s engagement.

Case Study Questions

  1. How would you counsel the imposter’s wife?
  2. What is your plan to involve the husband in counseling?
  3. How will you counsel the wife if Biff does not repent?

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