Marriage Day 28 – God Is There Before You Get There

Marriage Day 28 – God Is There Before You Get There

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You may not know where your marriage is leading you, but this one thing I want you to know: Regardless of your journey, you can rest assured that God is well ahead of you and has made many preparations before you arrive. Like a great friend waiting to receive you at the end of a long journey, the good Lord is always ahead of you and has a well-prepared ending in mind.

All the descendants of Jacob were seventy persons; Joseph was already in Egypt (Exodus 1:5).

In Exodus, God was disrupting an entire nation. The Lord let the Israelites know that the times were changing. There was turmoil in their land. They were in dire straits. The famine had spread beyond discomfort, and their families were struggling to make ends meet. From their perspective, they lived in the moment, and there was little hope for change that would make their future any better. It was not clear to them as to what they should do to resolve their problems. From the “ground-level” view, they had no idea of God’s plans for them in Egypt.

In Exodus 1:5, the writer is letting you know that the Israelites were in the process of leaving their homes and heading to an unknown place somewhere in Egypt. Though the text does not say, I’m sure some of them were struggling with the stirring of their nest (Deuteronomy 32:11). God created an uncomfortable situation because He wrote a story that was far beyond anything they could think or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).

What was a time in your marriage when you distinctly felt that God was changing your circumstances for reasons you could not understand? From your “ground-level” perspective, were you resting in the assurance that God was working a good plan for both of you? It was time for a lifestyle change. New people, places, and things were the “new normal” for the Israelites, and there wasn’t a thing they could do about it. The writer then inserted five little words into the Bible: “Joseph was already in Egypt.”

Imagine what it meant for Joseph to be “already in Egypt,” waiting to receive his dysfunctional family and confused friends. It took the mighty hand of God to rip Joseph away from his family so that He could reposition him in Egypt. God used a few Ishmaelite tradesmen, an evil woman, some jail time, and Pharaoh’s favor. To think “Joseph was already in Egypt” misses the profundity of what God did by a zillion miles. Joseph’s story is more mind-bending than just prepping a place for a few friends and family.

God went to great lengths to get Joseph to Egypt because that is what God does for those He loves. God is always persevering with you, always planning, and working ahead of time, so when you arrive, you’ll be amazed because God was already there. Whether it’s Joseph’s family turmoil or your marriage problems, what you are experiencing on the ground level is not the same as what God is doing on the sovereign level. The Lord works in interfamily disputes in such a way that you will never be able to figure it out until He lets you know, and when you do find out, it will blow your mind.

Time to Reflect

  1. When you look at your marriage problems from the ground level, what do you see? How does it feel? What are you experiencing?
  2. When you think about your Father planning, removing, repositioning, and inserting things into your marriage, does it bring more hope than fear?

Practical Suggestion

Take some time to read chapters 37-50 in Genesis while keeping Exodus 1:5 in view. Ask the Father to ease your soul as you watch Him working, knowing that no matter where He takes your marriage, He will be waiting when you arrive.

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