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Articles Categorized 'Media & Tech'

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I Am a Saved Legalist Who Struggles with Depression
I Am a Saved Legalist Who Struggles with Depression
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The Powerful Upside and Downside of Habits
The Powerful Upside and Downside of Habits
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Take the “Am I a Counselor?” Test
Take the “Am I a Counselor” Test
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Should I Count My Mean Husband More Significant than Me?
Should I Count My Mean Husband More Significant than Me
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Experiencing Extraordinary Favor During Disappointment
Experiencing Extraordinary Favor During Disappointment
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I Need Help Counseling a Stubborn Couple
I Need Help Counseling a Stubborn Couple
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Which Do You Need for Your Maturity: a Bible or a Mentor?
Which Do You Need for Your Maturity a Bible or a Mentor
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A Note to Quiet People: It’s Time to Start Talking
A Note to Quiet People It’s Time to Start Talking
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Warming Butterflies, or How to Treat Your Wife
Warming Butterflies, or How to Treat Your Wife
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I Am Unable to Believe God
I Am Unable to Believe God
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You Have the Right to Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin
You Have the Right to Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin
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I Failed as a Parent—Now What?
I Failed as a Parent—Now What
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Give Your Children Fewer Rules and More Attitude
Give Your Children Fewer Rules and More Attitude
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Three Stages to the Christian Life. Where Are You?
Three Stages to the Christian Life. Where Are You
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I Want to Talk You Out of Becoming a Christian
I Want to Talk You Out of Becoming a Christian
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Why It’s Not Wrong to Expect Love in Return
Why It’s Not Wrong to Expect Love in Return
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Dear Evangelical, It’s Unwise and Unhelpful to Mock Joel Osteen
Dear Evangelical, It’s Unwise and Unhelpful to Mock Joel Osteen
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The Problem Letting Religious People Know The Real You
The Problem Letting Religious People Know The Real You
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When Your Children Are Constipated (Spiritually Speaking)
When Your Children Are Constipated (Spiritually Speaking)
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Interview with Pastor Mike Hawkins about Caring for Others
Interview with Pastor Mike Hawkins about Caring for Others
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Memories—Forgetting Past Relationship Thoughts
Memories – Forgetting Past Relationship Thoughts
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If You Have Limited Time and Friends with Unlimited Needs
If You Have Limited Time and Friends with Unlimited Needs
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Three Mind Maps on How to Change Your Thought Life
Three Mind Maps on How to Change Your Thought Life
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Unkind Dads Tempt Children To Be Afraid Of God
Unkind Dads Tempt Children To Be Afraid Of God
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Letter to a Counselor, Counseling a Rebellious Teenager
Letter to a Counselor, Counseling a Rebellious Teenager
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How Do I Work Through a Porn Addiction?
How Do I Work Through a Porn Addiction
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Four Essential Elements To Live A Well-Grounded Life
Four Essential Elements To Live A Well-Grounded Life
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Should Your Child Go to College?
Should Your Child Go to College
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A White Guy And Black Guy Talk about Racial Issues
A White Guy And Black Guy Talk about Racial Issues
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Write a Book Review, Help a Life
Write a Book Review, Help a Life
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If You Exported One Thing To Your Child, What Would It Be?
If You Exported One Thing To Your Child, What Would It Be
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Mind Mapping a Strategy to Change Your Life and Relationships
Mind Mapping a Strategy to Change Your Life and Relationships
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Why All Other Psychologies Bow at the Foot of the Bible
Why All Other Psychologies Bow at the Foot of the Bible
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Synonyms for People-Pleasing, Insecurity, or Fear of Man
Instructive Synonyms for People-Pleasing, Insecurity, or Fear of Man
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Being Divorced Is Like a Man in a Tux and Brown Shoes
Being Divorced Is Like a Man in a Tux and Brown Shoes
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Creating a Critical-Free Community On Facebook Platforms
Creating a Critical-Free Community On Facebook Platforms
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How to Tackle the Biggest Battle in Your Soul
How to Tackle the Biggest Battle in Your Soul
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One Reason Children Rebel Against Their Parents
One Reason Children Rebel Against Their Parents
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How to Find Answers Today for Tomorrow’s Problems
How to Find Answers Today for Tomorrow’s Problems
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When Your Leadership Does Not Model Transparency
When Your Leadership Does Not Model Transparency
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A Common Marriage Problem: I Don’t Like You
A Common Marriage Problem I Don’t Like You
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To Be the Man You Must Nourish and Cherish Your Wife
To Be the Man You Must Nourish and Cherish Your Wife
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From Adultery to Restoration in Thirteen Steps
From Adultery to Restoration in Thirteen Steps
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Three Keys When Confronting Someone
Three Keys When Confronting Someone
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Submitting Your Life to the Foolishness of God
Submitting Your Life to the Foolishness of God
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Breaking the Bondage of People-Pleasing
Breaking the Bondage of People-Pleasing
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Addressing the Little Bit of Narcissism In All of Us
Addressing the Little Bit of Narcissism In All of Us
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How to Assess Yourself to See If You Are Mature
How to Assess Yourself to See If You Are Mature
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The Wisdom of Boasting in Your Weakness
The Wisdom of Boasting in Your Weakness
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I’m Divorced and Want to Date—What Are Your Thoughts?
I’m Divorced and Want to Date – What Are Your Thoughts
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Connecting the Gospel to Evil and Unfairness
Connecting the Gospel to Evil and Unfairness
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Diagnosing Disappointment with God When Trouble Comes
Diagnosing Disappointment with God When Trouble Comes
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Mid-Life Crisis: A Story of Redemption
Mid-Life Crisis A Story of Redemption
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Mean Husbands, and Wives Who Want to Love Them
Mean Husbands, and Wives Who Want to Love Them
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The Critical Difference Between a Log and Speck
The Critical Difference Between a Log and Speck
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The Unintended Spiritual Benefits of Legalism
The Unintended Spiritual Benefits of Legalism
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Four Reasons You Cannot Reconcile with Someone
Four Reasons You Cannot Reconcile with Someone
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Two Ways to See If You Are in the Faith
Two Ways to See If You Are in the Faith
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The Necessity and Danger of Wise Risk-Taking: Testing Your Belief
The Necessity and Danger of Wise Risk-Taking Testing Your Belief
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Did God Want Clemson to Beat Alabama?
Did God Want Clemson to Beat Alabama
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Cynicism Is a Response of the Disappointed
Cynicism Is a Response of the Disappointed
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I Trusted God, and My Life Fell Apart
I Trusted God, and My Life Fell Apart
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Do You Wanna Be Happy?
Do You Wanna Be Happy
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Here Is Your Radical Marriage Conflict Resolution Tip
Here Is Your Radical Marriage Conflict Resolution Tip
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Discipleship Is Not Primarily about Changing Circumstances
Discipleship Is Not Primarily about Changing Circumstances
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The Secret That Will Change Your Life Forever
The Secret That Will Change Your Life Forever
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Six Questions When Engaging Others, Especially Those Who Hurt You
Six Questions When Engaging Others, Especially Those Who Hurt You
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How to Care for the Professional Victim
How to Care for the Professional Victim
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God and the Bible Are Not All You Need to Change
God and the Bible Are Not All You Need to Change
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Can’t the Local Church Do This?
Can’t the Local Church Do This
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A Good Discipler Is a “Rent-a-Friend”
A Good Discipler Is a “Rent-a-Friend”
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When You Can’t See What You Need to See
When You Can’t See What You Need to See
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Four Absolute “Musts” If You Want to Get Along
Four Absolute “Musts” If You Want to Get Along
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Tips On Helping the Person Who Does Not Want Help
Tips On Helping the Person Who Does Not Want Help
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My Child Is LGBTQ+. Will You Help Me?
My Child Is LGBTQ+. Will You Help Me
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Idol Swapping: I Stopped One Sin and Gained 30 Pounds
Idol Swapping—I Stopped One Sin and Gained 30 Pounds
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Open Letter to My Culture: I Have an Identity Too
Open Letter to My Culture I Have an Identity Too
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Engagement Without Understanding Leads to Violence
Engagement Without Understanding Leads to Violence
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Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good
Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good
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A Gospel-Centered Response to Criticism
A Gospel-Centered Response to Criticism
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Do You Believe a Sinning Christian Can Change?
Do You Believe a Sinning Christian Can Change
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A Strong Appeal to Disciple Your Wife
A Strong Appeal to Disciple Your Wife
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A Believing Believer Lives Practically What They Believe
A Believing Believer Lives Practically What They Believe
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Will God Get It Right: the Accusation of the Worrier
Will God Get It Right the Accusation of the Worrier
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Should I Say Something about Someone Who Is Messing Up?
Should I Say Something about Someone Who Is Messing Up
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One Powerful and Practical Way to Give Peace to Someone
One Powerful and Practical Way to Give Peace to Someone
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Should I Honor My Parents or Obey My Husband?
Should I Honor My Parents or Obey My Husband
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Do You Have the Gospel Edge?
Do You Have the Gospel Edge
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From Dating to Divorce and How We Got There
From Dating to Divorce and How We Got There
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Four Excellent Parenting Tips You Can Implement Today
Four Excellent Parenting Tips You Can Implement Today
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Seven Solid Tips That Will Change Your Life
Seven Solid Tips That Will Change Your Life
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We Fornicated While Dating, But Why Did He Commit Adultery?
We Fornicated While Dating, But Why Did He Commit Adultery
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Why I Do Not Believe in God Any Longer
Why I Do Not Believe in God Any Longer
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Three Tips For Moving Forward When Things Are Hard
Three Tips For Moving Forward When Things Are Hard
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I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar: Thoughts on Feminism
I Am Woman, Hear Me Roar Thoughts on Feminism
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The Confession of an Imposter
The Confession of an Imposter
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The Best Thing Some Parents Can Do Is Stop Parenting
The Best Thing Some Parents Can Do Is Stop Parenting
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Secret-Keeping Destroys Lives and Relationships
Secret-Keeping Destroys Lives and Relationships
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Some Days You Need to Feel Like a Counselee
Some Days You Need to Feel Like a Counselee
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Three Reasons God Is Not Able to Help You
Three Reasons God Is Not Able to Help You
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Too Much Truth Can Keep You from the Truth
Too Much Truth Can Keep You from the Truth
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Ten Things to Know Before You Can Help Someone
Ten Things to Know Before You Can Help Someone
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NFL Ratings Decline Because of the Players
NFL Ratings Decline Because of the Players
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Revenge: When Evil Comes to You
Revenge When Evil Comes to You
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Leading Husbands and Their Wives Who Want to Love Them
Leading Husbands, and Their Wives Who Want to Love Them
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Daddy and Daughter Discuss Justification and Sanctification
Daddy and Daughter Discuss Justification and Sanctification
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Sometimes God Makes You do Things You Don’t Want to Do
Sometimes God Makes You do Things You Don’t Want to Do
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How to Counsel Non-Christians With God’s Word
How to Counsel Non-Christians With God’s Word
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You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore
You Hurt Me, So I Don’t Love You Anymore
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How to Think About and Respond to the Unchanging Person
How to Think about and Respond to the Unchanging Person
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Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You
Learning How to Help the Person Who Hurt You
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The Simplest Counseling Advice You’ll Ever Receive
The Simplest Counseling Advice You’ll Ever Receive
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Do You Want My Attention or Do You Want My Care?
Do You Want My Attention or Do You Want My Care
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Why I Don’t Watch Football Any Longer
Why I Don’t Watch Football Any Longer
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Counseling Is Not the Best Option For Change
Counseling Is Not the Best Option For Change
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Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve?
Is It Necessary to Use Biblical Categories to Problem-Solve
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When Is Enough, Enough? The Hardest Thing You Will Ever Do.
When Is Enough, Enough The Hardest Thing You Will Ever Do.
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What to Do When Counseling Is Not Going Anywhere
What to Do When Counseling Is Not Going Anywhere
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There Is a Blessing Found in an Unconcerned Wife
There Is a Blessing Found in an Unconcerned Wife
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Will You Help Me? My Ex-spouse Is Ruining Our Children
Will You Help Me My Ex-spouse Is Ruining Our Children
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Counseling Can Be a Lying Profession
Counseling Can Be a Lying Profession
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Mind Mapping a Lady with a Small God
Mind Mapping a Lady with a Small God
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Why I Can’t Tell My Spouse Everything I’m Thinking
Why I Can’t Tell My Spouse Everything I’m Thinking
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Rick, Why Won’t You Counsel Another Way?
Rick, Why Won’t You Counsel Another Way
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A Good Listener Listens on Two Levels
A Good Listener Listens on Two Levels
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Do I Need to Be Certified to Become a Counselor?
Do I Need to Be Certified to Become a Counselor
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Have You Fallen for the Being Understood Trap?
Have You Fallen for the Being Understood Trap
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Today’s Christian Replaces Yesterday’s Negro and Gay Person
Today’s Christian Replaces Yesterday’s Negro and Gay Person
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Are Children Better Off With Divorced Parents?
Are Children Better Off With Divorced Parents
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How to Stop the Fallout of Fatherlessness
How to Stop the Fallout of Fatherlessness
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Upside to Smoking Weed and Making Out at Church
Upside to Smoking Weed and Making Out at Church
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Mind Mapping Christian Maturity, Are You Mature?
Mind Mapping Christian Maturity, Are You Mature
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Fussy Parents Make Insecure Kids
Fussy Parents Make Insecure Kids
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Counseling Is Not the Best Context for Long-Term Transformation
Counseling Is Not the Best Context for Long-Term Transformation
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Should You Have a Biblical Counseling Strategy for Church?
Should You Have a Biblical Counseling Strategy for Church
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Storyboarding Marriage—From Dysfunction to Restoration
Storyboarding Marriage - from Dysfunction to Restoration
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Why Do I Do That? Can You Help Me?
Why Do I Do That Can You Help Me
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Striving for Character, Better Than Making A’s
Striving for Character, Better Than Making A's
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Eight Sequential Steps to Change Yourself
Eight Sequential Steps to Change Yourself
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Shame: I Don’t Want Anyone to Know What’s Happening
Shame I Don’t Want Anyone to Know What's Happening
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The Number One Key to Endure a Relationship
The Number One Key to Endure a Relationship
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Six Keys for Enduring an Unwanted Divorce
Six Keys for Enduring an Unwanted Divorce
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Future Planning: What Do You Want to Do with Your Life?
Future Planning What Do You Want to Do with Your Life
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How to Divorce Well
How to Divorce Well
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Time to Stop Praying and Reading, and Start Doing
Time to Stop Praying and Reading, and Start Doing
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Nine Tips for Managing Your Life and Calendar
Nine Tips for Managing Your Life and Calendar
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Six Ways to Make the Most out of Counseling
Six Ways Things to Make the Most out of Counseling
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Competitive Communication – Winning Is All That Matters
Competitive Communication - Winning Is All That Matters
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A Proactive Plan to Care for Others
A Proactive Plan to Care for Others
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Gossip: When Someone Says Bad Things About You
Gossip When Someone Says Bad Things about You
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I’m Living Alone in My Marriage
I'm Living Alone in My Marriage
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Personality Tests Are Like Psychological Selfies
Personality Tests Are like Psychological Selfies
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Deadbeat Husband – Wife Left to Ponder Her Future
Deadbeat Husband - Wife Left to Ponder Her Future
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Two Essentials If You Want To Change
Two Essentials If You Want To Change
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The Blessing of Doing Things Without Thinking
The Blessing Of Doing Things Without Thinking
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Should a Wife Submit To an Unrepentant Husband?
Should a Wife Submit To an Unrepentant Husband
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12 Universal Assumptions You Can Make About People
12 Universal Assumptions You Can Make About People
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Let Me Teach You How To Predict the Future
Let Me Teach You How To Predict the Future
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The Most Blessed Relationship Two People Can Have
The Most Blessed Relationship Two People Can Have
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Can a Person’s Family Become an Idol?
Can a Person's Family Become an Idol
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Mind Mapping Stinking Thinking: How to Change Your Mind
Mind Mapping Stinking Thinking How to Change Your Mind
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A Good Reason to Remember Sin
A Good Reason to Remember Sin
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Number One Key When Working Through Relational Conflict
Number One Key When Working Through Relational Conflict
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The Natural Regression Of a Woman
The Natural Regression Of a Woman
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Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
Emotional Problems Point to a Poor Thought Life
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Dear Christian: Are You a Christian?
Dear Christian Are You a Christian
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Understanding How Your Enemy Is God’s Kindness To You
Understanding How Your Enemy Is God’s Kindness To You
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My 13-Year-Old Friend Was Divorced Five Times
13-Year Old Girl Divorced Five Times
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The Joy-Depleting Problem Of Being Reared In a Christian Home
The Joy-Depleting Problem Of Being Reared In a Christian Home
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The Problem With Head Knowledge Versus Heart Knowledge
The Problem With Head Knowledge Versus Heart Knowledge
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Self Pity Is A Window Into Your Soul
Self Pity Is A Window Into Your Soul
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Three Things That Will Crush Your Faith
Three Things That Will Crush Your Faith
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Man Alive! The Problem With The Resurrection
Man Alive! The Problem With The Resurrection
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Can a Christian Divorce Another Christian For Abuse?
Can a Christian Divorce Another Christian For Abuse
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Surviving Suicide — When You’re Left Alone
Surviving Suicide — When You’re Left Alone
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Spiritual Abuse – When It Is Time To Leave
Spiritual Abuse - When It Is Time To Leave
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A Progression From Pain To Purpose
A Progression From Pain To Purpose
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Foster Children – The Forgotten Victims Of Abuse
Foster Children - The Forgotten Victims Of Abuse
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Four People Types Who Get Stuck In a Rut
Four People Types Who Get Stuck In a Rut
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Interview With a Victim of Adultery
Interview With a Victim of Adultery
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When Christianity Disappoints You: The Death Of My Brother
When Christianity Disappoints You The Death Of My Brother
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Abuse, Suffering, and Other Painful Disappointments
Abuse, Suffering, and Other Painful Disappointments
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How To Argue Well With Others
How To Argue Well With Others
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“You Are Suffering, and I Am Glad” – Jesus
"You Are Suffering, and I Am Glad” – Jesus
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Why We Should Embrace the Crucible Of Suffering
Why We Should Embrace the Crucible Of Suffering
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Ten Things to Know If You Want to Be a Counselor
Ten Things to Know If You Want to Be a Counselor
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Great Advice – Date Your Wife Forever
Great Advice - Date Your Wife Forever
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Ten Ways To Find, Develop, and Enjoy Wonderful Friends
Ten Ways To Find, Develop, and Enjoy Wonderful Friends
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Five Ways You Can Love Your Church
Five Ways You Can Love Your Church
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There Are Only Four Problems In Life For You To Solve
There Are Only Four Problems In Life For You To Solve
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A Cry For the Victims Of Sexual Abuse
A Cry For the Victims Of Sexual Abuse
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The Wisdom In Handpicking Your Friends
The Wisdom In Handpicking Your Friends
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The Wisdom In Giving Your Friends Room To Sin
The Wisdom In Giving Your Friends Room To Sin
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The Necessity Of “Critiquing” Authority Structures
The Necessity Of Critiquing Authority Structures
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A Marriage That Is Living In the Freedom Of a Forgiven Past
A Marriage That Is Living In the Freedom Of a Forgiven Past
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When You Love Your Children Better Than Your Wife
When You Love Your Children Better Than Your Wife
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Is God Harassing You?
Is God Harassing You
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Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic
Three Keys That Will Make Your Small Group Dynamic
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Make Your Friends Help You If You Want to Change
Make Your Friends Help You If You Want to Change